Art & Life
Love and War
Written By Jasmina Siderovski
26th August 2015
In life you meet the loner, you meet the social butterfly, the antagonist, the power to you and the drifter! Whomever path you cross in life, learn each second a part of their traits and take in the choice to delegate that part that strengthens your uniqueness. Never judge others personalities use those features to teach you just how amazing each attribute strengthens your core. You never know when these just might come in handy to build your life. We all are different and unique in our ways; there is never a wrong or right - just an individual uniqueness that will always set each person apart from those who know where they have been and yet to learn their path.
Our lives belong with our determination to be the best we can be. The natural beauty to spread our best and hope for reciprocation by others. It's when you give your heart unconditionally, time and time again, with no appreciation in return, as much as we think our love is prenuptial reality has it that it's human nature to give and take. Love and goodness do in the end come with the price tag, where one is doing the giving and the other the receiving may it be without thought or even unintentional we sometimes forget to look at the bigger picture.
Love as unconditional and universal as it is, it's also a magnet to be received and acknowledged by all involved. A friendship or a partnership, it is based on two people appreciating, understanding, caring, trusting, dedication and commitment to make it work. It's not hard to just come half way, it's not difficult to have an understanding, and it's not against the law to smile from time to time.
Unfortunately, we have a story of our own; no one is here to compare the weight of each heartache, it's simple it's called caring for yourself and others, helping where we can, opening the doors to other genuine souls and trusting again. Always listen beyond the words, beyond their eyes look into their hearts and understand the language that is a gift to all.
Control a Diversified Fear
Written by Jasmina Siderovski
9th October 2015
Sometimes we are challenged to balance our emotions. We can be on a high and the lows from time to time tend to remind us we need to appreciate what we already have. So many people are happy with less than what we have, and that is so true. We are all surrounded by reminders of the blessings in our lives each day!
Fear and anxiety are just a transitional phase that shape events out of our control and in turn help you challenge fear. Fear is the biggest cause of concern - with fear naturally follows our low self-esteem - the lack of control. It's all related. Fear is healthy at times as it balances out universal principles and we learn that the outcome is not always a controlled phenomenon.
Regardless of your beliefs or religion - control is a broad area that surfaces with so much of the Unknown. Sometimes it's just easier to let it be as we hit challenge and other times if you are like me so headstrong you refuse to let it take over your core belief as we work so hard years and years shaping your values to understand that you are your destiny! Open to interpretation as there is no last light - the future is so different to so many people, and we all differ as a human race. I don't mean that we are any more or less equal, or sub divisive in the spectrum - I simply am saying that we all have a unique story of our own.
The structure is a coercive measurement of a judgmental society. We are taught to live and learn and create. The fundamentals of life! What we lack in scope is that we have an even deeper side to us where some may choose to explore, and others fear. Fear is a journey in itself. We all have some fear, and we all face it from time to time. Understanding that fear and control, although heavily correlated are also obtuse in core! There is never a set time which defines us how to deal with this part of us as our minds and bodies deal with acuteness in so many different ways.
Anxiety and fear, lack of control and perfection all shapes us as people. We deal with it every day - in our homes, our career, society and now our new lifestyle of social media that has entered our routine.
STOP making it so final. Life has its plan. Until you are groomed to understand that everything is not black and white in life and you appreciate that the gray areas are there to build our strength, wisdom, and experience, then you are open to the bigger things that reward you as you learn that sometimes everything is not at all what it seems.
Life takes you to its heights and its lows. It can also take away a piece of you, the lessons become your teacher, and you become its learning curve, an experience of universal principles, the etiquette of inevitability. What I'm trying to say sometimes it is what it is. The only way you can challenge your fear is by learning that fear is just a lack of your control. It's an anti-social tool that reminds us not to be so dormant as we chase our dreams. Taking one step at a time through that idea is facing your fear.
It's the approach to how you deal with uncertainty, control, and challenge. Your reaction is the key to your happiness once you work out what that is the rest suddenly follows and all works out!!!
Written by Jasmina Siderovski
31st August 2015
Our lives seem connected in many ways, from both ends of the universe all the way to our hearts. We live in distant corners of the world, leading lives so different, but not so different. In fact, we all love to make a difference in this world. The sad truth is that not many have embarked on these revelations, or are yet to understand what it is they are seeking. Happily leading flamboyant lives that add no substance, or quality to oneself, or anyone else.
Many will leave this world never having found purpose. Perhaps through no fault of theirs, as life is a mystery, and many will never have the chance to locate the truth or substance.
“What is the truth? It’s a realm of facts, by the persons seeking justice in their journey, questioning the truth?”
The fact is what makes sense and are facts of the events in your walk through life. Some truth may be painful and others an awakening. Some may lead to more questions, simply an extension of understanding the truth. A lot has been discussed and touched on. However, there is so much more in life to touch on that it’s truly a never-ending journey for us all.
We can all collectively make a difference. You just have to search for that difference in life. It could be a simple gesture, a simple smile, a simple donation, or a mere belief in someone else’s dreams.
We are quick to judge others. We lack the control to understand who we are judging, and even why we are judging them at all. As an old American Proverb states: “Don’t judge a book by its cover!” There is a further depth to that in my eyes.
It is rejuvenating to have the ability to block a judgmental world. We all need to slow down, and take the time to smell the roses, and appreciate their real beauty in life. We need to achieve goals in our lives through fairness and equality.
Unfortunately, a bigger power of greed and jealousy has taken over society, as we question fairness and justice.
Love your life, think about the clutter in your mind, and hold on to hope that somehow, somewhere, things will come right.
Circumstances are a tribute to tests. Destiny in your heart is what you make of it. Nothing is ever easy, nor meant to be, nor is it hard, or impossible to conquer. We all smile, we all cry, and we all have the choice to value our tribunals and cherish the once what was to what will be.
Nothing ever makes sense, perhaps we over analyze, or maybe we miss the point. Perhaps, our ideas somewhat different, yet somehow equate to morals. It doesn't matter who you are, or the story you have to tell. No one should ever judge you for your successes or your failures.
Success is learning and listening. Our choices and intellectual property - that is a success! How you choose to grow, it's solely up to you. Never base it on the next person, because the day you compare your smile and life with others is the day you will let yourself down. Don't fall in that circle, attract active people in your heart, cherish those special people, and try to understand their place in life. Never stoop to other’s misdemeanors, as you will only mirror the next. Be unique, and be proud to be YOU.
“Finding peace within yourself isn’t condoning your actions, but learning from your reaction.”